Ghosted

Listen to "Ghosted" on Spreaker. Is it what you did or didn't do that led to you being ghosted? When it happens it's completely natural to point the blame finger at yourself. To take the hit of silence and try to locate new friends. One is silver and the other is gold. Interestingly enough one of the top reasons why ghosting takes places isn't what you did wrong. It's what you didn't do. It's one of the evil sicknesses of being part of a team. Hard workers do the work for everyone. The day you don't show up you become lesser than. How often have you bumped into this conversation, "You did it the last time without complaints. You've always been there for me. Oh suddenly you've become better than everyone else." Ghosting comes so easily because there's always someone new to replace you. How you treat others transfers to other areas of your life. On this podcast I leap onto a train of faith and talk about how God has been ghosted. The power wasn't there when you needed it so whatever. Ghosted. Simple acts of random kindness aren't job applications. Helping each other out is brilliant companionship. Expecting the partner to do their side of the agreement and yours too is why so many relationships are the image of one person walking across a busy freeway with no purpose to block the shot. Just get it over with. You can't show up to a wood fence expecting it to survive another storm if you aren't ready to put paint or stain on it. In all things we do we are breaking down. Through awareness you can help preserve. Ghosting people isn't the way to reaching happily ever after.